Free soft start · No streak theatre

Seven quiet days. Tiny actions. Continue if you miss one.

A private week-one plan for adult women (18+) navigating their own compulsive or hard-to-steer porn use. Checkboxes stay on your device—no account, no tracking. Education and self-reflection—not therapy or a cure.

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New here? Do the 10-minute start first, then return. Hard spike tonight? Urge bridge or listen-along beats “perfect week” plans.

Day 1 — Place the tools

Day 2 — One honest map line

Fill one Mini Urge Map row after a quiet moment—or after a hard one. Patterns, not grades.

Day 3 — Practice the bridge empty

Run the urge bridge or listen-along when you are not in crisis, so the path is familiar.

Day 4 — Night setup

Late + alone + phone is a common cluster. Skim the night protocol before bed.

Day 5 — Aftercare rehearsal

The hour after a spike often hurts more than the spike. Know the aftercare steps cold.

Day 6 — Values, not purity

One sentence: what kind of evening do you actually want this week? Not a purity score.

Day 7 — Review without courtroom

Look at the week’s map lines. What clustered? What helped after? Continue next week—no day-zero theatre.

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Missed a day? Continue from here. You’re collecting data—not grading your soul. Open hours: Sunday soft start · morning · midday · evening. Soft edges: boundaries without purity.