Day Zero onboarding
A 10-minute start guide so you’re not staring at a folder of PDFs wondering where to begin.
Women-first · Shame-safe · Secular by default
Tools for the next urge—not a reinvention fantasy.
A private $37 starter kit so you can map patterns, ride spikes, and debrief slips without streak-shame.
$37 one-time · digital · yours to keep
Adults 18+ only. Education & self-reflection—not therapy, not a medical device, not a cure.
Fit
Who it’s for—and who it isn’t
This kit is for you if you
- Are a woman 18+ struggling with your own compulsive or problematic porn use
- Want awareness tools you can use privately
- Are tired of streak-shame and “just stop” advice
- Prefer plain English over clinical coldness and over spiritual pressure
- Want something you can finish—not a 90-day identity overhaul on day one
You do not need a diagnosis, a rock bottom, or anyone else’s permission.
This is not for
- Anyone under 18
- Partners whose primary need is betrayal-trauma recovery (you deserve specialised support; this kit centres self-use)
- People seeking therapy, medical treatment, or a promised cure inside a PDF
- Anyone wanting male-default or hardcore abstinence-culture community vibes
The kit
What’s inside ($37)
Six practical pieces. Download once. Use privately on a hard Thursday night.
14-Day Urge & Trigger Map
Daily prompts to see patterns without punishment or streak theatre.
Panic Button + listen-along
A one-pager for urge spikes, plus a ~10-min calm urge-surfing audio you can play in the moment.
Relapse Debrief Worksheet
Non-shame review after slips—data over humiliation. Free companion: post-slip debrief.
Values, boundaries & wallet card
Clarify what matters; set self-boundaries; keep a tiny crisis card with you.
Referrals + therapist share sheet
Crisis and care pointers, plus a one-pager you can optionally show a clinician. Faith-based options labelled honestly.
Prefer to try first? Download the free 5–7 Day Mini Urge Map—feel the approach before you buy.
Stay in touch
Calm notes + free tools in your inbox
Occasional, shame-safe notes for women 18+ navigating compulsive porn use. Education and self-reflection—not therapy, not a cure. Unsubscribe anytime.
Adults 18+ · No spam · Education, not therapy
Try before you buy
Proof without testimonials
No invented quotes. Peek a filled sample worksheet, or try the panic-moment audio yourself.
See the worksheet tone
Open one clearly labelled EXAMPLE map row—judge depth and voice before you spend anything.
Open sample worksheetHear the spike tool
Play the ~10-minute urge-surfing listen-along yourself—no account, usable in a hard moment.
Play listen-alongHonest scope
What this is not
- Not psychotherapy or counselling
- Not a medical device or regulated treatment
- Not “rewire your brain in 7 days”
- Not an addiction cure claim
- Not scare stats without context
- Not a religious program in secular clothing
Where clinical language like ICD-11 Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD) appears in our materials, we treat it carefully: it is a clinical category that remains contested in some research communities, and this kit does not diagnose anyone.
In practice
How it works in real life
Week 1: notice urges and contexts.
Hard moments: use the Panic Button instead of white-knuckling in silence.
After a slip: debrief without torching your self-respect—or use the aftercare hour.
Saturday morning: try a Saturday soft morning after a hard Friday—or before the empty day gets loud.
Open weekend hours: try a Sunday soft start before the empty afternoon gets loud.
Sunday night → Monday: try a Sunday night handoff when empty evening hours meet day-zero theatre.
All free tools: tools directory (live core listed first).
Mid-day empty pocket: bathroom break, lunch alone, cancelled meeting—try a weekday midday companion.
After-work edge: commute home, couch drop, Friday alone—try an after-work evening companion before the night protocol.
Friday night quiet: friends leave, house empties—try a Friday night / weekend edge companion for the hour after everyone else goes out.
When calmer: name values and boundaries that fit your life.
When needed: step toward a therapist or peer space using the referral list.
Small, repeatable, adult.
Pricing
Simple pricing
Steady Ground Starter Kit
$37USD
One-time digital download. No subscription. Yours to keep and use privately.
Checkout is live via Stripe — private card payment, then instant zip on the thank-you page. 7-day refund.
7-day refund: If the files won’t open, you received the wrong item, or it’s clearly not a fit after a fair look, email us within 7 days of purchase for a simple refund. No humiliation rituals.
What happens next
- Pay once via Stripe → instant zip on the thank-you page → yours to keep.
- Private: no membership theatre, no community required, no public profile or streak board.
- Prefer to try first: free map, sample worksheet, or listen-along—no account needed.
Private by design: one-time digital download · no community required · no public profile or streak board. Card statement shows a discreet Stripe/business descriptor — we’ll publish the exact text once set. Details: Privacy.
18+ confirmation required at checkout. Educational product only.
FAQ
Questions, answered plainly
Is this therapy?
No. It’s an educational / self-reflection toolkit. Many people use tools like these alongside therapy.
I’m religious — can I use this?
Yes. The kit is secular by default. Values worksheets include an optional faith/meaning section without bait-and-switch. Faith-based peer resources are listed and clearly labelled.
I don’t think I have trauma. Is this still for me?
Yes. Trauma is treated as optional context—not a required origin story.
What if I relapse while using the kit?
Use the Relapse Debrief. Slips are information. No restart humiliation ritual required.
Do you have testimonials?
Not inventing any. Early users’ stories will be shared only with consent and without sensational framing.
What’s your refund policy?
7-day refund window if files won’t open, you got the wrong item, or it isn’t a fit after a fair look. Be transparent on the checkout page; email us within 7 days of purchase.
Is this only for people who want lifelong abstinence?
No. The kit helps you understand patterns and choose boundaries that match your values—whether your aim is reduction, pauses, or quitting. We don’t police your endpoint.
A calm, women-first starter system you can actually use on a hard night—not a manifesto.
Steady Ground is ready when you are.
Adults 18+ only. Checkout live via Stripe — free map available anytime.
Disclaimer
Adults 18+ only. Steady Ground is for educational and self-reflection purposes. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, a medical device, or a substitute for licensed mental health care. It does not diagnose, treat, or cure any condition—including compulsive sexual behaviour or addiction.
If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, contact local emergency services immediately and see the International Association for Suicide Prevention resources at iasp.info/suicidalthoughts.
By purchasing or downloading, you confirm you are 18 years of age or older.