Day 0 · Free · Private
You don’t need a new identity tonight.
You need a calm plan for the next seven days. About 10 minutes. Pen optional. Adults 18+ only. Education and self-reflection—not therapy, not a cure.
If you are unsafe or having suicidal thoughts: local emergency services now · IASP. Steady Ground is not a crisis service.
Minutes 0–4
Place three things
- Download the free Mini Urge Map and put it somewhere private you’ll actually open.
- Open the urge bridge, try the listen-along, bookmark Sunday soft start · morning · midday · evening for open hours, or print the wallet urge card for spikes.
- Skim the FAQ once so you know what this is—and isn’t. Optional: peek inside one EXAMPLE map row.
Minutes 4–10
Week-one plan (simple)
- Today: Finish this page + place the map and urge tools.
- Days 1–7: Fill the Mini Urge Map once a day (5–12 min), or follow the printable 7 quiet days checklist. Missed a day? Continue—no restart theatre.
- Any hard spike: Urge bridge (10–20 min) or wallet card (2–5 min). After the spike: aftercare hour or post-slip debrief. Unsafe → crisis resources, not worksheets.
- Want more structure later: the $37 Starter Kit adds a 14-day map, relapse debrief, values worksheet, audio, and referral list—same ethics, more depth. See the full inventory.
One-line intention for week one (realistic, not perfect): write it privately. You’re collecting patterns—not grading your soul.
Optional
Occasional calm notes
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