5–10 minutes · After work · Anti-purity theatre
After-work evening edge
A short companion for adult women (18+) when the workday (or school day) ends and the evening phone pocket opens—commute home, couch drop, Friday alone, “just check one thing.” Local checkboxes only. Nothing is saved or sent.
Education & self-reflection—not therapy, not a medical device, not a cure.
1) Name the after-work pocket (30 seconds)
Say or write one line. Borrow if needed:
“The day ended. Emptiness + phone is a setup—not proof I lack willpower for the whole night.”
2) Body basics before the feed
3) One piece of soft friction
Pick one—temporary edge for this first evening block, not a lifelong ban:
- Phone face-down / in a bag / on a different surface for the next ten minutes
- Brightness down · logout of the usual app · clear the usual tab
- Stay upright at a table / kitchen counter before the couch loop posture
4) Pre-decide the first evening block
Before the screen suggests a path:
5) Optional 2-minute map glance
Only if it will not turn into prosecution. One line is enough:
- When / where / device (commute, couch, kitchen, bathroom)
- Feeling or need-guess (relief, loneliness, flatness, Friday open hours, stress drop)
6) Know where the night bridge lives
Searching mid-spike is its own trap. Tick what you’ve placed:
7) If the wave still comes—or already did
A charged after-work pocket does not require day-zero theatre. Use what fits:
- Urge bridge or body reset mid-spike
- Night protocol when it is late and alone with the phone
- Aftercare · debrief · continuity after
- 7 quiet days for a gentler week shape
Disclaimer
Adults 18+ only. Steady Ground is for educational and self-reflection purposes. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, a medical device, a crisis service, or a substitute for licensed care. It does not diagnose, treat, or cure any condition.
Crisis: local emergency services · iasp.info/suicidalthoughts.